Introductory Statements of Introduction

Ever since I can remember, I always wanted to be a writer.

That’s probably a legitimately truthful statement. But nobody can refute me, so there we go. Honestly, yes, I dig the writings. I’ve written a lot of things–things that will never see the light of day (well, the light of somebody’s else’s eyes), things that I should delete off every hard drive it wastes space on. But if there’s only one thing you should know about me, it probably isn’t that I’m immensely nostalgic.

Anyway at some point (high school?) the ‘I’m the best writer there ever was’ bubble got popped. Disillusionment (reality) set in. And I realized I was writing glorified fan fiction. Andbutso then I started making pointed efforts to stop borrowing from my favorite books and finally set in to do some legit work of my own. I’ve started at least three novels, none of which are finished and probably will ever be finished. But really, I don’t write to be published and I don’t write to be read. I write to relieve my frustrations or sate my overactive imagination.

So that’s sort of what I’m doing here. I have no delusions about being read. I’m not even sure I want to be read. The subtitle to all these blogs are ‘Just Another Site,’ and I’ll be damned if that’s not true. Just another in a long line of self-indulgence. But I say, if I spend all of my self-indulgence on an internet blog, maybe I can stop being so self-indulgent in reality!

Blogs are like the eco-friendly versions of diaries, anyway, right? I suppose I’m not really doing anything to save in environment because I have at least 20 notebooks at home that are empty, waiting to be full of more pretentious drivel and anxieties and nonsense.

I love paper. I love notebooks. I love writing with gel ink pens. There is something so comforting about an empty sheet of paper to me. It’s an open challenge. Do something amazing with me. The possibilities are limitless. And I suppose, now, the possibilities are limitless on the internet. This madness is an infinite supply (I hope) of empty pages waiting to be filled with anything and everything. This is, I hope, my outlet for anything and everything.

I’ve been told by professional writers that blogging is a great idea because it gets all the bad writing out. That’s an interesting idea. You just write and write and write and get all the bad writing out so only the good writing remains. I’m not sure if I believe this is true. It might be true. I don’t want to be a writer anymore, so I really don’t need to worry about getting all the bad writing out for any reason other than catharsis.

In any case, if ever I stop writing here, you’ll know I’ve returned to paper–my best and oldest friend.


Normal Is Not Normal.

A 2 minute conversation I thought up in the car that I can’t think to do anything with. I just needed to get it out of my head and into yours.

Man 1:

What’re you going to write a movie about now?

Man 2:

A little girl who becomes an inspiration to her little town.

Man 1:

Eh. What does she have?

Man 2:

What do you mean?

Man 1:

What is it? Lukemia, cancer… AIDS?

Man 2:

She doesn’t have a terminal illness.

Man 1:

Down’s Syndrome?

Man 2:


Man 1:

I don’t understand, then. Is she poor?

Man 2:

Middle of the middle class.

Man 1:

Does her daddy beat her?

Man 2:

What the hell is wrong with you?

Man 1:

I’m just trying to think of what makes her an inspiration! You can’t just have a normal little girl walking around inspiring normal townsfolk!

Man 2:

The townsfolk are cannibals.

Man 1:


Man 2:


Man 1:

Seriously. What is it?

Man 2:

Nothing! She just goes about her life regularly and does some yet-to-be-created good deed and people rally around her and cheer and stuff.

Man 1:

And there’s nothing that’s standing in her way?

Man 2:

Obstacles on every corner… it’s so… cliche! Who says you have to face every hardship in the book in order to get something good done? Do you think every do-gooder in history had to overcome something huge in order to do that good? No! Sometimes people do good from their living room recliner during Monday Night Football–and maybe that was his obstacle, to think about things despite the fact that it’s Monday. But I think it’s time for the average do-gooder to get their spotlight. There aren’t enough movies about the guy who picked up a toy that has been dropped by a baby and then hands the toy back to the mother because you should never give a toy dropped on the floor back to a baby just in case the mom wants to sanitize it! Good on that guy! He deserves his own film!


Man 1:

I still think that–

Man 2:

I’ll give her a broken arm, okay?

Man 1:

Broken arm? The least you could do is take off a leg…

[Aaaand scene.]

The Candyman Saga

I work at [undisclosed shipping store] and there is a customer I have who will guaranteed make Jesus think he’s a lost cause. He shall be heretofore known as the Candyman–all pervy, creeper implications welcome. And he has been plaguing me for years.

His mother lives in a nursing home in Florida. She has Alzheimer’s and doesn’t remember much except her bi-monthly supply of 15 pounds of candy and chocolates (not an exaggeration, people) from her son, the Candyman. The Candyman is an ungentleman in his late fifties (at least), plump, stout, thinning mop of grey hair, face like a frog, and an attitude that says he’s used to being found utterly charming.

Interaction, September 1, 2010:

I’m not even open an hour, the Candyman walks in. He has parked his shiny silver Porsche in the fire lane outside my store. He carries a rather large bag of candy and chocolate purchased from the grocery store next door. This is what he does every time he comes in.

Sayeth the Candyman, “I lied to my mama. I told her I sent this out last week… but it’s okay, because she never remembers.”

Pause. Consider courses of action. Decision: Do nothing. Say nothing. Hope he goes away.

He doesn’t.

I shove all ten pounds of his candy into a padded mailer–the method of packaging second most likely to send the message, “I can’t be bothered to pay for a box to send this to you,” second after, of course, the non-padded mailer, which is, in fact, the envelope–and I weigh it and measure it and do all sorts of jiggery-pokery to get the job done as fast as superhumanly possible. Meanwhile, this guy decides to tryout his audition for Last Comic Standing to me.

I ask him a standard question, “Can I get your phone number please?”

He stares at me and moans what he always moans, “You’ll never call me.”

Lately I’ve been responding, “You’re absolutely right.”

“Lemme tell you a joke,” says the Candyman then.

“Please don’t,” I silently plead.

“So this guy is sitting at a bar, and he’s just staring at the shot in front of him, not doing a thing. And a biker–big tough guy, all leather–comes into the bar and sees this guy. And the biker says to the guy, ‘Well, hey, if you ain’t gon’ drink it,’ and the biker takes the guy’s shot and downs it. The guy bursts into tears, and the biker starts apologizing, ‘I’m sorry, I’ll buy you another one. What’s going on?’ And the guy says, ‘Well, yesterday I lost my job, and this morning, my wife left me, and y’know, I just don’t have any more poison!’ “

A pause. Crickets can be heard chirping at 9 am. I don’t think it’s funny. And I have an amazing sense of humor. Just no patience for this man. This man who has bothered me for close to two years. This man who is constantly inappropriate. This man whose mere presence makes me shiver with discomfort.

“You don’t think it’s funny?” he drawls.

“I think it’s horrible,” I say, sort of smiling in a way that hopefully masks whatever animosity I feel.

He takes this pretty personally. We finish up the transaction, and he hears the total and slides his card and signs his name. Then he says, “You know, you should wear a mask.”

I look at him, full of dread, thinking, “Oh my Joss, I don’t see how this could end favorably.” So I ask him why.

“Because you’re a burglar.” And with that he leaves. What a flair for the melodramatic.

Interaction, September 25, 2010:

Enter Douchie McDouchenozzle, Esq. (sometimes I call him this when I’m real extra upset).

He brings in TWO bags of candy, plops them down. I’m keenly aware that he has another bag, a gallon bag that you fit food in and such. “Another bag,” I think with complete dread. “That means he plans to stay longer.”

(let’s kick this conversation a little faster and change up the format)
Him: Hey, lady… I’ve come to send some candy to mama.
Me: You’ll need to grab an envelope.

He unrolls the bag and dumps its contents onto the counter. It’s all cheap jewelry.

Him: C’mere.
Me: …why? [please go away we don’t need your money]
Him: I wanna show you somethin’.
Me: …okay. [I hate you]

I walk over hesitantly.

Him: See any of these trinkets that strike your fancy?
Me: [oh god oh god. what do I do] Um. No. Sorry. I don’t wear jewelry. [well, at least that’s the truth]
Him: You don’t?
Me: …nope. [also, I would rather subject myself to many very painful tortures than accept jewelry from you]

He somewhat angrily puts the jewelry back into his bag and rolls it up. He waits for me to do something with the candy.

Me: …You’ll need an envelope.

We debate about whether to use an envelope or a box, since he’s just brought a mountain of stuff. He decides a box, I pack it.

I bring the package back to the counter and he gives me his phone number [thank god I don’t have to ask him for it, so he won’t say, “You’ll never call me.”] and we get started.

Him: Hey, do you like jokes?
Me: It depends on what kind of jokes. [I don’t want to dignify that stupid question with a response]
Him: Well, it’s a good one.
Me: If it’s the one with the guy in the bar with the poison, I’ve already heard that one.

He pauses. And stares at me. I stare at him. I’m uncomfortable. The silence has gone on too long. I’m just going to keep working on the shipment.

Him: Do you have the winning lottery numbers?
Me: What? No.
Him: Have you already heard that joke?
Me: …yes.
Him: Did I tell it to you already?
Me: Yes.
Him: Did you think it was funny?
Me: No.
Him: You didn’t laugh.
Me: [Good god] no. [you’re awful]

His feelings are hurt. Again. At least this time he didn’t say that I should wear a mask because I’m a burglar. This time, he’s much more mature. He turns on his sad face.

Him: I think I’m going to go home and curl up in bed. Are we done here?

He signs one of them.

Him: Am I done yet?
Me: And the other one.

He signs the other.

Him: Are we done yet? I want to go home and go back to bed. [because you don’t think I’m charming, aren’t I charming? who doesn’t think I’m charming, raise your hand]

We’re not done. I make him actually pay me and then he leaves.

Oh how I wish this wasn’t true.